First off, IF you think he is MLC, then read the resources that Pilot posted to you on the symptoms of it...
And then, if you still think so,then try to stay in one area to post, it makes it easier to follow you..
MLC is a different animal then you have ever faced before.
Our focus here is healing and self growth, plus , as you may have seen, we have a little fun on the side.
IF you have to go through this, there is no better place to be than here...There are some really great people here, and we have Gritter too.
You will vacillate between MLC or WAH for quote some time with this.
In the end ? IF you can focus on your own growth and healing, it won't really matter as much. The advice between the two varies, and IF he is MLC, then WA tactics will not work.
Tactics are just that anyway, a trick to manipulate the situation.
That is why it is key for YOU to become you again.
Maybe start with some more info on YOU ?
What are some things that you would like to change about Lisa?
Keep posting, MLC moves a little slower than some of the other areas, and is pretty quiet here on the weekends, especially a Holiday weekend.....
Take care of you and your daughter first....
Read the resources and try to have a great weekend....
As far as what you are feeling about your interaction...Don't think too much about it for now....
Mistakes are only that if you don't learn from them and keep making them over and over again.
