Spouse Suffering From Depression

[Lucky11too]

That a-hole! He’s making all these plans with me tonight all the while texting back and forth with her like crazy. I’m scared to death, but I have to confront him – I have to make the ultimatum. I’m NOT doing this again. Her (and any and all future girls) or me – no other options. I’m playing along right now with his whole plans for tonight, but he’s going to be in for it when he comes. I just hope I don’t wimp out. I must use this anger and hurt to be strong. I’m just sick to my stomach right now. I’m keep switching from anger to fighting back tears. The worse is knowing that tonight with my ultimatum, I’m basically going to officially end my marriage, but this point, I don't have another choice. This is just not acceptable. That’s the thing that made me break down this morning – that to get rid of H, means to lose my S (partially). It’s just nauseating. I know there is not much that can be said right now, but I just needed to put down some of these feelings. I know life is not fair, but this all just seems so beyond unfair, especially as much as I've been there and supported him these last few months. What a jerk. His loss...but unfortunately mine too (definitely not H, but S)... =( Sad...very sad...