Take a deep breath. You can't change the past so don't fret over it.
Am I to undertstand H was living somewhere other than your home for the past 8 nmonths?
Where?
And is he moving back to your home now that you are with your parents?
What makes you think he is MLC? You can read the links OP gave you up there to help you decide.
There is a somehwat different approach if you think he is MLC only in that you really don't want to confront or pressure him because, well let's just say it doesn't work.
We focus on YOU here.
The first thing you have to do is detach. Read the detach link.
Take the focus of H.
You are going to want to get all information you can on H or talk or communicate with H.
You need to minimize that for now.
Also read the stages of the LBS. This is for YOU and it doesn't matter if H is MLC or not this is the path you must take.
Others will be along to help.
Read others threads too. Everyone has been where you are.
Last question is there OW ?
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
