Setting them free

[lostnhurt]

So glad I read this thread, its just helps reinforce all the advice I've been given.

I have to say I can relate to futureunknown, my girls and how this will affect them has been definitely one of the hardest part of all this.

I must be doing better at detaching than I realize, went out again last nite w/a female friend, ...just a friend, but was nice. Today, ran out to do 'errand's, and w/is now start to ask where and why. I just tell her nothing important, or just to meet with a friend, I try to be vague without lying.

After reading this thread, it may just be time to give her that 'two week' notice, as hard as it will be. I'd be lying tho if I didn't say I am still very torn inside about doing that. But Im also starting to see more and more everyday, that I will need to regardless of the outcome, for my own well being.