What I learned from DR is that patience and time are HUGE when dealing with a MLC. And I went and lost my cool Tuesday and screwed it all up. Totally regret it! Now what?
Time and patience are definatly biggies when dealing with MLC.
Welcome to the best worst place to be. (nickle)
OP has given you some really good links to read. I would suggest reading the resources and digging into the archives a bit.
I haven't read your other thread yet, but I can tell you that we all lose our cool once in a while.
Especially at the beginning of this.
Time and patience, while important in dealing with the MLCer, are also very important tools in dealing with yourself.
Keep posting and others will be around as well.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox