I have a feeling that almost no one on this green earth will support her in the manner of which OIN is. The reason i said almost nobody, because I know her father probably would. I hope her father wouldn't enable her current behaviors because it will mess her up to stay on it even if people allow it.
OIN should consider this. Might do a dumping strategy to get her to wake up.
I am guilty of enabling some bad behaviors which bassically messed up my current wife for the recent time being, nothing I could have done but left, but oh well. Going into this I would not do high maintenance for a "9 or 10", because to me its still a female. But I am guilty of having done it in this particular situationg. Coming out of it I won't do it again.
