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That her walking was in her mind a "pre emptive strike" if you will,before I could do it to her, because my emotional withdrawl from her in her mind was a metaphor for ME "walking away"


that explains what she did. do you understand why she did it? not what you think but from her perpsective how you look?

the A-Ha moment comes when you see how you look to her not when you can identify her issues (how she looks to you).


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.