CG, I'm anxious to hear OIN's response, but he has stated several times, and very strongly, that what he fears is "not taking care of my wife, and pushing her away, and then someone else will."
(I'm paraphrasing, but not by much)
Personally, I think the woman has a lot of baggage, so I don't know if she's like a "9" or a "10" in the looks department or something, but between her attitude and her health, I honestly don't think anyone else is going to put up with her the way OIN does.
Not trying to be cruel or anything -- just agreeing with an observation that someone else had made previously, and I also think it's relevant since OIN has said, repeatedly, that THAT is his fear.
