Scwred up and need advice

[CPCajun]

You're still focusing on how SHE WILL REACT to things, instead of "What is The Right Thing to Do?"

Wrong.

Do the right thing, for you and your family. How she perceives those things is up to HER, not YOU. You cannot control how she responds to you.

Puppy

Thanks Puppy. I just did. It was over the phone. The bank messed things up. She tried to blame me for it, but I wouldn't take it. How is the bank's problem my fault? :facepalm:

It pretty much went just as you posted. She perceived it the wrong way, and tried to push blame to me. I did not anger, point blame, or apologize. I didn't care how she reacted. I told her 'this' is how I have to do it.

I am pretty happy how it went. I guess, I tend to overthink things sometimes.