CL, there seems to have been a flurry of activity while I was composing my above response to your thread.

Congratulations on standing up to her and calling her to tell her what happened was not acceptable.

Double congratulations on her acknowledging and respecting your point of view.

My personal opinion is you still need to be stronger as an individual and therefore stronger with her but that said, your objective was accomplished. I am happy for you. I read this as a step forward.

...The warning needs to happen BEFORE it happens again. The consequence simply needs to happen.

Last edited by DownNotOut...yet; 07/02/10 05:10 PM.
Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted