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She called me and said that he was in a poor emotional state and would spend the night with him. I asked her if he was suicidal, and she said he wouldn't stop crying. I didn't push the issue any further.
So because he is sad, your wife gets to have sex with him?

He manipulated your wife into his lair and you allowed it. This guy is the lowest of low. He is not even going about stealing another mans woman by being manly! He is doing it by crying, and it's working!!! If I was Elvis I would have shot my computer monitor when I read this.

She can call you on the phone and in a matter of fact way tell you she is sleeping over at another man's house???

How is it that she can even have the guts to consider asking this much less TELL you this is what she is going to to.

What is wrong with, Mrs CL, you are my wife, not his, please respect me as such, and be home a reasonable hour.

...Or if he is in such a sad state the he requires overnight supervision, let's call professional help.

...Or, wow, that sounds bad, I'll be over in 30 minutes to help you out.

...Or, Mr CryBaby, I don't care how sad you are, mess with my wife and see how much more sad you are with my foot in your a$$

I have been with you for a long time, you seem like a kind and gentle man, but come on, an email after the fact is no boundary nor consequence. What do you fear that you cannot stand up to this woman.

I firmly believe that an actual stand and some passion on your part will do more for her attraction to you and more for your self esteem than all the book reading and email writing you have done in the last year.

Sure it will be scary as h@ll but will do so much for you. What holds you back?


Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted