I posted the following on my thread and another thread on "Infidelity":
In IC today my IC told me that the changes that I've made (thanks to PDT/Sandi and others) are my best chance at possible reconciliation down the road. And if we don't reconcile, I will bring clarity and healthy boundaries into my next relationship.
I've started to really "get it" the last few weeks in setting/enforcing boundaries, respecting myself, and reclaiming my dignity. My WW is free to join me if she desires but I'm moving on with my life. The techniques I've learned from this site are not about WS's, they are for us LBS's. Now, my WW can fog speak to me about "not meeting her needs", but you know what, I HAVE NEEDS TO that must be met.
I would like to add "Never make someone the priority when you're the option"
Cheers!
Last edited by loweinsd51; 07/02/1004:27 PM.
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
