Thanks, Coach. It is completely unacceptable as it is irrespospnsible and childish. Actually, not childish as even children understand responsibility, This is a rebellious teenager who thinks they are an adult.
This is why I suggested I tell her that "I've decided that you need to set up a personal bank account this weekend. I've decided that your actions the last while have shown you have chosen your new agenda over your parental responsibilities. I can handle Calla. Find a place to stay (you've done very well this week) and make it permanent."
"We'll deal with the rest of this via email and text."