I feel for you too, IDU. The kids are my only concern in my sitch as well. It sickens me to think that they will have to deal with a broken family. I pray they will be OK.
But despair and worry over them does not help matters at all; it only makes things worse from a psychological perspective. We have to pray and trust that God will take care of us and provide us with a brighter future.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09