Just wanted to stop by and say how sorry I am, that I feel your pain, and I feel for your kids. Please do the proper research on how to tell them, and what to tell them, before you say anything you regret.
I know you're very angry righ tnow, and justifiably so.
I'm glad you're standing up for yourself. Should be real interesting when your L asks wife's L to disclose how those funds were spend for those withdrawals. A good family court judge isn't going to look too kindly on her squandering marital assets!
Only one quibble with your approach: it is NOT your responsibility to -- nor would I advocate -- tell your wife what YOUR attorney says. It's not YOUR job to educate HER on the legalities of breaking up her family.
Like I always say, there's a reason they put that little "v" in between the name of the parties. Be design, it's an adversarial system.
