I got the ILYBINIWY speech. She said we've grown apart, and she didn't "love me the way a wife should love a husband." I was devastated.
She's not attracted to you.
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"You sounded upset on the phone, is everything ok?"
Why ask that? You already know the answer.
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And she said "No! Aren't you stressed out too?"
I just kind of shrugged.
That's weak. Stop taking her temperature.
Here's what I "see" in you. You are afraid to take action but you want to control everything by stonewalling - stop going to MC because it mads you "feel" upset. Your wife won't be attracted to a emotionally weak man. You sound very scared, unsure of yourself and angry deep down. You exhibit passive-aggressive, co-dependent and pessimistic behavior.
Stop letting your feelings control you. Make yourself responsible for your own happiness. You have a choice in how you think, feel, and act.
She will notice when you start acting like a man.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
