Scwred up and need advice

[CPCajun]

Sorry to be blunt, CP, but WTF CARES if she is angry with you?

She SERVED you!!!

This is LEGAL at this point, the financial disclosures are both STANDARD and MANDATORY, and the family court judge is NOT going to look kindly on her squandering any family assets!!

THIS is why people need to "firewall" their finances when their spouse is wayward.

Puppy

Ok to be blunt Puppy, I can take it. I just have trouble putting what I want to say in written context.

I know W served me, but doesn't mean I give up.Am I not seeing things correctly? I already see subtle changes in her towards me. I see the cat trying to get the catnip.

I already got a personal bank account and have changed my direct deposits. I am set on protecting myself and will bring this foolish spending to the attention of my L.

I didn't convey what I meant correctly. I know she will get angry when confronted. I do not want to seem that this is a control issue again as I used to be in the past. I want W to tell me why, I do not want to force it out of her. I want the burden to now fall on her.