"I'm not having an emotional affair (read - I AM having a physical affair?)
For the record - and I know that wasn't by any stretch the point of your post - but I didn't arrive at that conclusion and think it's not a good thing for you to either. Just my 2 cents.
Have a super day!
A
M - 46 H - 47 T - 20 yrs M - 19 yrs DS 7yrs DS 6yrs DD 4 yrs Bomb - 4/3/10 My Sitch
First off... did it hurt? I don't know that I'd have the guts. lol!
(still not comfy with the thought of hot wax & some stranger... you know)
It was *ahem* uncomfortable ... and I was sooooooo not comfy with the idea but I had a girlfriend recommend it and I thought what the he!! ... why not! And I do NOT regret it at all!
Originally Posted By: beingreal
I wonder if he was hoping for a round trip to Brazil last night, hence the invite to stay? Too bad. His passport needs serious updating. lmao!
This made me laugh outloud! He certainly didn't make any moves, but maybe he was hoping I would ... NOT!
Originally Posted By: beingreal
I am just dying over the MLC exchange. On a serious note, I sometimes wonder if I'm not having one myself. Working out, going out, clothes, hair, shoes, new makeup... the whole shebang. Except in mine, I know why I'm making changes, I'm working on all the hard stuff & rewarding myself with some new stuff. I'm not running away from anything.
Maybe that's what makes us different.
BINGO!
Originally Posted By: beingreal
I love the way your hair sounds. I did something like that last summer. I'll have to post pics. I love the blond streaks, but it just fries my hair, so I'll stick with the red.
It matches my disposition. lol!
I can't believe I'm having a convo about hair color.
I put a few pics from yesterday on the alt ... not sure if there are any good hair ones ... and the red suits me now too
Originally Posted By: beingreal
I understand about feeling the pain & working through it. I'm not holding a grudge over the past. I still get hurt over his actions now, but I get reminded that he is confused & scared. I've been doing this for more than two years--he has been dealing with this for just over two months.
I can only keep treating him the way I want to be treated. I'm not going to get down & dirty with him, even though he is doing it. That is not the kind of person I am. It's not the kind of person I want to be. I want to be happy--and happy people don't go out of their way to inflict hurt upon someone else.
I'm glad you had fun yesterday. It's been a long time coming.
I couldn't agree more ... with all of it
PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
"I'm not having an emotional affair (read - I AM having a physical affair?)
For the record - and I know that wasn't by any stretch the point of your post - but I didn't arrive at that conclusion and think it's not a good thing for you to either. Just my 2 cents.
Have a super day!
A
Thanks Fud .. I get it, I guess the point was that he can be very careful with how he words things to 'avoid' having lied. Anyway ... it doesn't matter one iota right now
You have a super day too! PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
LMAO ... the waxing Grit ... definitely did not have a Brazilian man this week! And FTR ... H might be more of a J3B kinda guy, I'm guessin' he's nothing like Eric - never seen him in a tutu, that's for sure! I guess the point is really, we don't know who the he!! he is at this point!
Thank you! I'm starting to feel it ... from the inside out
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
