OIN, don't take my post as me beating you up, I just tried to be as real with you as I possibly could, you need a dose of reality, so does your wife, just like PDT said above, I hope you find the strength, courage and clarity that will enable you to do what must be done.
I don't want you to get divorced, I don't want anyone to get divorced, I really do believe in the methods that have been prescribed to you by Gucci and Puppy and all the other veterans on this site, I believe in doing what works, and this is what works.
