Oh and I totally agree with CW-- we want to detach but we can't snap our fingers and make it happen suddenly. Timeheals does make a good point about getting involved in your hobbies to help you move forward and detach.
Except I am learning that when my stbxh says or does certain things, then it sets me back. This might happen to you (and many others as well!) So there is an element to making up our minds to detach!
Last edited by newmama; 07/02/1003:08 PM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
