I tried it your way as well. I knew all the reasons it wasn't me and was my wifes problems. I just made things worse. Let me know when you want to try something that works.
I stand before you guilty of having done the same thing. It didn't do me a bit of good either.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-