Mystik, you are showing your strong side- I am impressed! I knew you had it but you have been posting about feeling so depressed and lost that it seemed you might be vulnerable. Heck, guess when the going gets tough DO NOT MESS WITH MYSTIK!!!

So just for clarification, your H needs to file, and THEN you sign, right? That is how it works for my county. They fill out the paperwork and file the D before we sign anything!

If that is the case for your county, then heck you do not have to say or do anything about the D!

However, I suggest you keep his emails and record of his MANIPULATIVE attempts to talk to you about the D USING YOUR SON! grrrrr!!! Just in case you need it. ANd be a perfect angel regarding visitation and other stuff right now. Just mind your ps and qs so he can't use anything against you!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004