Right, no R talks.

But if W brings up a conversation, do not be withdrawn. Listen to her every word, validate her concerns, but thats all. Do not make yourself the focus of the conversation, let W get it out.


Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10