I did think of the new message thing, but geez...who is going to do that kind of texting at 6am?! Who knows.
And yes - many people would give their right arm for exactly what he wants to ditch. Just shows how unreasonable all of this is.
I just read the thread on letting go and reminded myself that I'm not supposed to care about what he's thinking or his reasons! I guess it's because in my circumstances, H is so up and down that it keeps me up and down as to whether I should be letting go or what! Bottom line is, I have to remind myself that it doesn't matter what HE is doing, I am to be GAL of my own, regardless! Easy in philosphy - harder emotionally when someones changes their mind daily.