My L ask that I get a monthly income/expense list made up for the hearing. I thought it would be the usual spending, but I am wrong. I had trusted my wife with the finances, but it looks like she has failed me(us). It looks like she has been spending alot more than we make. I do see a few cash withdrawls, but I will have to confront W on what they are for. Most of it is on clothes, eating out, and the Walmart.
I used to be so controlling with the finances till I had faith in her to do the finances. I know if I confront her she will think I am angry at her. I am not angry, but hurt. Hurt that she would do this. I don't know if she has a problem or if she did this out of spite, due to my abuse to her. I don't know how to bring this up with out her getting defensive and think I will raise hell on her. I have tried so hard lately to turn things around with myself to only find this.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
