First off... did it hurt? I don't know that I'd have the guts. lol!
I wonder if he was hoping for a round trip to Brazil last night, hence the invite to stay? Too bad. His passport needs serious updating. lmao!
I am just dying over the MLC exchange. On a serious note, I sometimes wonder if I'm not having one myself. Working out, going out, clothes, hair, shoes, new makeup... the whole shebang. Except in mine, I know why I'm making changes, I'm working on all the hard stuff & rewarding myself with some new stuff. I'm not running away from anything.
Maybe that's what makes us different.
I love the way your hair sounds. I did something like that last summer. I'll have to post pics. I love the blond streaks, but it just fries my hair, so I'll stick with the red.
It matches my disposition. lol!
I can't believe I'm having a convo about hair color.
I understand about feeling the pain & working through it. I'm not holding a grudge over the past. I still get hurt over his actions now, but I get reminded that he is confused & scared. I've been doing this for more than two years--he has been dealing with this for just over two months.
I can only keep treating him the way I want to be treated. I'm not going to get down & dirty with him, even though he is doing it. That is not the kind of person I am. It's not the kind of person I want to be. I want to be happy--and happy people don't go out of their way to inflict hurt upon someone else.
I'm glad you had fun yesterday. It's been a long time coming.
(still not comfy with the thought of hot wax & some stranger... you know)
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.
