How to tell the kids

[dday101798]

Again, no problem.

That said, (and here goes my blood pressure) gosh friggen damn it Dan, if you tell one more person to e-mail, call, text, carrier pidgeon, smoke signal, cave shadow, or whatever anything to or about your W I'm getting in my truck, heading up I94 and you are gonna feel a nasty sting on the back of your head!

Especially e-mail & text which is printable and can REALLY eff things up in court! In the thick of things, I had (x)W by the balls as she had a real bad habit of sending very nasty texts, one of which she proclaimed to have just gotten done having sex with OM and was going back for seconds for example. I could have blown her out of the water in court. Unfortunately, she realized this and barged into the house and attacked me, then called the police who kept me busy in the basement as they slammed my face into the floor at gunpoint, she was able to snatch my phone, take it home and clear it's memory. It magically resurfaced the next morning, empty.

Secondly, you sit on here all day and pound out your questions. Then you go home and discuss it with the neighbors. Dan, this is NOT healthy. I understand, I was there. But, how often do you want to keep this up? I did the same friggen thing, sat on here all day, didn't do squat at work (when I actually went), went home, straight to the beer fridge and searched out the first conversation about it all, if not, drank til I cried myself to sleep. And, half the time in doing so, leaving my kids to do nothing but sit inside and watch TV haveing no idea that in a half years time, I wouldn't be seeing them AT ALL. Catch my drift? Sure there's "blow off time" and then there's OBSESSING.

As for why your W came over, well, I don't know. Maybe it's the notion of what's to occur today eating at her? Or, maybe she was in fact scoping out the situation to ensure it wasn't a defimation session of her. Or, maybe, scratch that, probably is a bit of both.

Dan, I see a very repetative pattern in your posts that I think is highly contibutory to WHY you are here. You have far too many people medaling in your business and when something comes across as something you don't particularly like, you are quick to intervine. It's a double standard, broadcasting everything to everyone, but tyring to cutoff or censor what gets back to your W.

At this point, with a 3 day weekend ahead of us, I have some homework for you:

1) CUT DOWN ON THE BOOZE. Not only is it a fogging factor for both of you to deal with the problems (been there done that), it's taking away from your kids (been there again) and, oh by the way, (x)W was as big, if not bigger drinker than me through thick and thin, oh and doing drugs, yet guess who was the one accused of being an alcoholic in court? (CUSTODY)

2) Devote this to memory: "It is what it is". Like a sports figure has certain phrases dedicated to memory when approached by the media, this is you response to ANYONE who wants to talk about you situation. It is what it is. Next question?

3) What books have you read yet? eh heh, thought so, Read one!
Take a break from here unless you need to vent something. I won't be around to answer you anyway.

4) If you have a football, baseball or motorcycle helmet, you might want to have it handy, I'm very spur of the moment these days and Kenosha ain't that far.