The other reason you want to covet a cell phone even if you have cleared it of messages is because NEW messaegs come IN
When my wife was cheating on me and we were driving someplace and she was driving her cell phone rang, I reached into her purse to hand the cell to her and she SCREAMED
"LEAVE IT ALONE!!!"
Kind of a red light there for me eh? lol
Unless your H locks teh cell entirely he needs to protect it from incoming messages... don't forget that...
You can work to make the home more inviting for him, but that's still his choice to acknowledge it or ignore it...
The foolish thing is there are people half way around the world that would give their right arm to have what he does, and he's spitting on it daily... I know its frustrating...
