Setting them free

[JR09]

Gucci,

So how do you set the WAS free? Do you tell them verbally? Do you write them an email? Do you just go completely dark?
If you read mi sitch, I 've been separated now for 2 years. W filed a year ago but didn't pursue it. We are still separated but not divorced.

For the past 3 weeks, I haven't contacted W at all. I actually feel much better. Is that setting her free? I did send her a birthday gift yesterday just to acknowledge the birthday.

Any guidnace?

JR