Ok now I'm really confused. A woman I know at work is going through a
D. We obviously have an instant connection since we are going through the same mess. This woman called me lastnight and we had a nice conversation.

We talked very little about D but we talked about how she is processing and moving forward. Little did I know my W was listening to our conversation. This morning she was going come with me to take son to swim lessons.

She was getting ready and I asked how soon she'd be ready to go. She said I'm not going. I asked why and she said "I don't want to talk to you". I said ok see you later. She said I won't be home tonight. I said ok

I left and she sent me a text. It said "get this refy done asap, I won't be here when you are here. It's pathetic you sneak around to talk to this chick"

ummmm isn't that what she's been doing the past few months?????

I haven't responded to text


M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA