I just got my S back yesterday--they kept him from me for 11 days! I kept very busy (my fireplace and then I had some pocket doors removed) but I am GOING to get my S for my OWN vacation!! My motto these days? I am NO LONGER your DOORMATT!!
Getting tough with these guys is the answer--I know it. I pray you stay strong. My H held my hand yesterday for a few seconds. He doesn't know where my strength is coming from. I don't know sometimes myself, except I give credit to God. It is a snowball effect--my small efforts at strength are going well.
You will see positives--slowly but surely. Keep strong--do ONLY the things that make you feel stronger. Strength is the key.
