Those of you who have read my thread know my XW is the textbook definition of loose cannon. You've often seen me write that she's like Freddy Kruger in ""Halloween". Just when you think she's dead, the hand comes out of the lake to grab you in the rowboat.
Been divorced over a month, and mine was one of those marriages that SHOULD NOT have been saved. She was never invested in making it right, and her personality is not reflective or introspective in any way.
D18 just graduated from HS. She got 6 tickets for the ceremony; me, S12, D20, XW, XW's fether. That left one ticket. The woman I heve been seeing (Gym Woman!) for the past two years managed to get a ticket from one of her friends who had extras. That meant that D18 could offer the left over ticket to XW so that XW's boss (Smarmyscumbagparamourlawyerboss)who she started seeing when I was in Iraq, and continues to see) could have tic 6. D18 forgot to tell XW she had the extra ticket. XW found out and flipped out on D18! D18 can never again drive the Jeep that XW's boss leased for her when I was in Iraq, and XW refused to drive D18 to graduation. Psycho? You decide.
Next ambush. I got a text from XW Monday night at 930PM asking me what my "plans were for S12 today because both of his sisters were working". S12 is with me on Tuesdays and Thursdays from the afternoon onward.
She had him call me this morning at 8:00 and ask me "what my plans were for him". I said I had not made plans as he was not with me until this afternoon. I told S12 to put her on the phone. She statred to quote chapter and verse of the parenting plan. Stuff that just doesn't exist I just hung up on her.
At 8:30, I got a text from XW that "He's on his way in" She just dropped him off at my work and promptly left! Today is a work day for me, and she is the custodial parent.
The next issue is when I leave for 2 weeks to do my Reserve duty. She gets 1/2 of my Army pension eventually. She wants me to pay for child care on the nights S12 is supposed to be with me on these days. Are you kidding? What a control freak.
I really need to make behavior like this stop. Do I have some recourse? I don't know where it says anything in the parenting plan about me having him during the days of the week! My lawyer things a contempt charge might smack her on the nose. What mother does this?
