dudess. i really want to see his parents. they live in texas and i never get to see them. it also seems like a good opportunity to spend a positive experience together as a family. I think it's huge that he did this because he originally said it would be 'ackward'. i really would like to go. do you really think it is absolutely imparitive that i say no now? i would like to go, and go camping and then i feel that i can start setting guidlines and stuff. i will consider your advise though and i really appreciate it, guys. Its just not easy to completely blow him off when for the first time he seems GENUINE in the slightest bit... does that makes sense at all?