It's not him, you are dealing with an addiction.. We've tried to explaint hat to you...
WHen you hear him talk, its the addiction talking. When you see him do things, its the addiction controling him...
Yes, he will not appear as the man you married.. He's not, he's addicted to something and until that ENDS you wont' see that man anytime soon... You HAVE to treat the ADDICTION and accept that he has that problem FIRST and DEAL with it... Or decide its too much and to walk away...