The saga continues

[OfficerInNeed]

That is not the case.I am just telling you what lies ahead. So many of you are saying "tell her to leave" when legally I cannot.

I have thought about it long and hard and I am at the point where I am ready to let her go as so many of you suggested BUT there are so many variables involved that it is not that easy (for me at least because I am living it).

Lets be clear I am not making excuses but providing the facts before us.

I will look into counseling again and this time use my insurance. I spoke with a co-worker tonight and I feel more comfortable about this now.

CG since we are both in NYS you know as I do there is no such thing as no-fault divorce. W cannot make claims of any incident prior to our marriage and even then she would need to provide occurrences. So the route she has to take is separation for a year that will turn into a divorce once the year has concluded. I heard from someone that they have made divorce that much harder in NYS that judges are forcing couples to one year marriage counseling before divorce can be finalized, so I heard...

I know divorces are messy and costly and I do not want to go through that hence why I am DBing.