I am honestly at a loss as to what else to tell you. It seems you always have a reason why you can't do something.
Don't have a guest room anymore because you threw out the old bedroom set? No problem! Head to Target and get a blow up mattress. Instant guest room.
Divorce is messy and expensive and contracts and obligations have to be paid. If you do divorce it won't absolve you from your obligation to the contract you signed for your home but the two of you will simply have to pay it. It's how these things go.
C'ing isn't for your W it would be for YOU. How could you know after ONE session the therapist could not help you? And C'ing sessions are private and I believed covered under HIPPA laws so you would be protected.
Honestly, you are a hard read. It was just y'day after months of posting where it was made clear you had only been married for 9 months and your W only turned 25 today and she has already had an affair. You always have said "together for 10 yrs" which I assumed (incorrectly) meant married 10 years.
Maybe Puppy or somebody will have something to say that can help you out but I really don't know what else to offer. It just seems you always find a reason why you can't. You don't seem to want to take any tangible steps to detach or GAL.
