If I could add a bit of humor to an ugly situation.
When my XW was doing this I remembered the old Edie Murphy comedy video where he jokes about his uncle getting drunk and proclaiming "It's my house MF!".
If took this rather juvenile state of mind to heart after she left and it made me feel better. I then proceeded to rearange things in my house and get rid of all the crap and arrangements that we used to argue about 20 years ago and I gave into for tru-luv. I know it's juvenile but it worked. It made me feel better.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me