Mrs. A, You're making the right decision. You know you are. Encouraging words. Encouraging words. Encouraging words. Encouraging words. The "universe" is wrong. If you're blocked, it's all about him, not you. And, really: what difference does it make one way or the other? That (like most things) is all about him. Not about you. Stay strong.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac