Spouse Suffering From Depression

[Lucky11too]

So actually, I don't know who this girl is. I'm trying to do a little bit of investigating first. It's not the new girl - I played it coy & asked indirectly. H was only here for a little bit - pretty much ate dinner, played w/ S for a few mins, & left. He said he just felt in a weird mood. His b-day is next thurs so I asked him what he wanted to do, & said prob just go get drunk w/ the guys. I mentioned something about us doing something & basically he said that I'm no fun (that I used to be but not any more.) Sorry, I'm a mom w/ responsibilities w/ his child! So I really don't know what to make of it all. Like i said, there are a million a texts & few phone calls & the contact was almost all initiated by her. But even if that is the case of her pursuing him (which could be me just hoping), that's still not ok! Arggg! I just really have no idea how to handle this situation. I just feel so discouraged. I really thought we had a chance...I could see the light at the end of the tunnel, but now it's gone. I don't want to D & I'm just downright scared of the thought of a D, but this is where he's pushing. I just really don't think it's all set in yet - the shock this very likey might be happening again. Ironic too that today is the day OW1 is finally going to be out, & then I discover this news. But as hard as it is, I rather know then be the naive idiot dreaming of that future w/ H. Now I just don't know what to do...