He's Loving the Freedom of the 180 - Now What?

[newmama]

]He's already got one foot out the door and is looking for ANY excuse to leave.

I'm not taking the bait. It's hard as hell some days, but I'm not falling for it. Eventually, he'll stop trying. Kind of hard to fight with someone who's only ever pleasant in return. I mean you can only shout at a puppy for so long before you start to feel like a heel!

So he is trying to provoke you so that you would blow up and he would have an excuse to leave? Is that your guess?

But you know who will fight? OW. She's got the tongue and disposition of a viper and while I'm fun and playful like a puppy, she'll snarl and growl like the b*tch she is. One day soon she's gonna say or do something SO stupid that WH's gonna chew her up and spit her out and step over her body on the way out the door. Then he won't be able to get her out of her fast enough.

Wow, she must be from the same litter as my stbxh's OW! There are scripts for OWs, too!