Maybe this is just wishful thinking on my part but, to me, is seems that someone who was abused, like you and my wife were, has a skewed view and does not even know it. Therefore, you don't know how you were "built" because your foundation was cracked. Its only after you are completely past this stuff (if that is even possible) will you be able to learn how you were "built." Childhood abuse does not have to equate to low sex drive.
