That could be, Sportsfan. At first he was resistant to counseling yet he is the one that asked me about going and asked me to make him an appt. He even asked me several times to make sure when it was - so, I was definitely not pushing him into it. I DO hope you're right and that he's seeing some things in myself instead of just looking to blame me.
Sorry you had a bad experience with your FT. I even told mine today how fearful I was that it would make matters worse, if the wrong approach was taken. She was right on board with my way of thinking though and that H needs to get to the point of wanting to save his family before anything else can occur. (And I think it's good for him to go alone until that point.)
