I guess how we got here was I didn't buy the idea that somebody leaves somebody because they are emotionally strong and independent (really interdependent).
That part doesn't make sense to me. That part I am not buying.
In the end, you can pick this apart (and it sounds like you have done a lot of that), but his choices are his, and your choices are yours, and if he's going to go outside of his marriage, have an affair, and then try to blame you for the marriage failing, well... let him do that.
You know better, and all you have to feel good about are the choices you make going forward.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
