Is there a next best thing? At the moment, I know I am supposed to be pretending not to care anymore (detachment). But you know what? I am getting tho the point where I really DON'T care anymore. I'm not sure what the next best thing really is.........
Sorry to rain on you, but I just don't know anymore.
I hope things work out the way you want them to and I am VERY glad to hear about your house situation.