Puppy,
Agreed. Though I must say that reading Snodderly in the archives has given me a whole new realistic (though by no means hopeful) insight into my X's sudden downward, runaway spiral.
p.s.
Not the least of which is Snodderly's advice. "Your only choice for healing and renewal is to go on as if she were dead,"

Last edited by Gardener; 07/02/10 03:57 AM.
Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac