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Some men are just like that, and there is little one can do about it.


and women too...

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It probably had very little to do with what you did or didn't do. You are not a failure.


Exactly! well said...

and yes I feel that way too- there are moments when I crave attention from the opposite sex just to feel wanted. I don't know if you will ever feel 100% OK but 80% is good enough to start thinking about the future. The 20% will get down to 5% with the new life hopefully. We can't live in the past, we need to live for the future. Doesn't mean the future has to be with someone else if you don't want to. For me I'll do what I set out to do and that was to have a family, a partner in crime one I could trust and I won't let stbx destroy those dreams.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again