Just wanted to chime in and say that it sounds as if you found a wonderful FT. I can't begin to say how detrimental it is to have a bad one and I speak from experience.

You have said your H was resistant to C. It is a step in the right direction that he agreed to go now. He might be withdrawn after his session perhaps because he is starting to see how broken he is and how awful his behavior has been. That must be difficult to face. Just my take on it.


Me - Faithful wife
H - WAH
Bomb: Fall/2009 - PA/EA with OW for 1 year
Both in our early 40's
M - 16 years w/ no kids
T - 21 years
Separated since July of 2008 - H living with his mother