Setting them free

[pearlharbr]

Couple things:

i think you also have to understand that it takes a long time to wake up and walk away.

No, not for everyone. I discovered BF's affair on Thanksgiving and put him out of the house two months later. He wouldn't end it so I did. And I wish I had done it sooner.

does letting them go and detaching mean accepting that the m is over and not worth salvaging?

that's the vibe i'm getting.
and i thought the whole db forum was to help people save their m's.

Reread Gucci's first post on this thread:

Any thoughts? Anybody looking for help in setting them free?
The faster you do, the faster things progress. Not only for YOU but maybe even for the whole relationship...

I have heard many people say "I don't want to look back and say that I didn't try everything"

Have you really tried setting them free? for good?