how do you know that the problems have been addressed and that you've let them go?
I didn't say I let them all go. Some things I still am working on.
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the marriage 'as is' cannot be saved. both sides must change.
Yes, but only about half of us have to deal with EAs/PAs on top of all of that, and there's just no getting down to working on things while that goes on, and then you have to wonder if it will happen again if that issue in your partner isn't dealt with.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
