Hey Kara, Thanks so much for thinking of me. At this point, what I want has become irrelevant and it is now a matter of what I need. I am very sad.
Flo, That is a wonderful idea, but my H has been refusing MC. That was already becoming a deal breaker for me before I discovered this recent breach of trust.
I am not looking forward to what comes next, but I am planning, preparing, using my support system and reminding myself I will be OK.